You masturbate. He masturbates. Both are sexy separately Despite your instincts to keep your solo time, well, solo, getting off as a pair can be a huge turn-on, says sex therapist Danielle Harel , Ph. We promise it won't be as awkward as you're worried it might be—but to help you skip any uncomfortable moments and go straight to the hot-as-hell phase, we put together a primer for masturbating side-by-side. When you're ready, slip the tips of your fingers between your legs, and softly caress the inside of your thighs, then start touching your clitoris and going inside your vagina if you'd like.
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We're always hearing that we could be having better sex , a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how we might actually achieve those things? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the specifics. This week's topic: How to masturbate , because knowing several ways to get yourself off is something everybody should have in their skillset.
Because you set the agenda and control the action by yourself, on your own terms, masturbation may be the best way to learn what turns you on. Most people raised as girls are set up to not enjoy sex in one way or another. They aren't told very much about their bodies in detail at least not about their genitals , they may be told that sex is something to be afraid of, something to resist.