Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Anal sex is low-key very high maintenance. In theory, all you have to do is put a penis or object into someone's anus — but that doesn't always go smoothly, literally and figuratively. Foreplay is extra important, if not mandatory, when you're having anal sex, because you have to get the anus ready for penetration. One non-negotiable anal sex foreplay step? Here are some foreplay ideas that will help make anal sex feel way better, according to Lilla, Rachel Needle , PsyD, licensed psychologist and director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes, and Francie Stone , PsyD, certified sex therapist.
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The emotional overture I feel before boarding a roller coaster is about the same as I feel right before embarking on anal sex : excitement, followed by mild hesitation and nervousness. The thing about every single roller roaster ride I've been on so far is that I've loved them all. No matter how many butterflies are tap-dancing on the bottom of my stomach as the ride lurches up a steep hill, the thrill I feel at the end of the ride is always worth it. This isn't to say that everyone who likes roller coasters will also like anal sex. The takeaway from this metaphor is that it's very much fine to be nervous about it beforehand—even if you're totally sure and you should be that this is something you want to be doing. Anal sex requires a bit of extra preparation , but other than that, it's just another sex act. Whether you're still debating to get in line for this particular roller coaster, or are already lurching up the steep hill, here's everything you need to know about anal sex.
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A: No butt is meant for sexual penetration. But back to butts. Using lots of anal lube, slip a finger inside your anus, then two, and then three. This allows the sphincter muscles that surround the anus to relax and get used to the feeling of expansion. Breathing deeply also helps.
Which is a good thing! Women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex. Or, you know, you can do butt play and leave it at that forever, because it's your booty and you make the rules.